“I am also Italian-American, so the 5 stages of grief are cavatelli, mozzarella, parmigiana, ravioli, and prosciutto.“ omg 👏👏👏 Grief *will* make you do strange things. Sending cozy things for your heart. 🩵
Baldwin truly is a treasure beyond measure. I’ve been watching a lot of interviews with him. Just in the middle of this 1971 conversation with him and Nikki Giovanni: https://youtu.be/y4OPYp4s0tc?si=3xACbNpcY2lFHGBp
Grief rituals matter. I’ve been thinking about this recently. My son is coming up on a big birthday, and my grandmother died two days before he was born. Because of the circumstances of his birth, I was barely conscious of her passing, and feel like I never got to truly grieving her. My sisters and I have talked about how to find the rituals we couldn’t have at the time. Yours are inspiring. Hugs to you.
I think it was watching clips of Baldwin being interviewed was what made me want to read him. Similarly, I never got to properly grieve my uncle, who died during the first month of the Covid pandemic.
Great post! I enjoy seeing your world through your words and images. We have something in common - I read my first Baldwin book last summer - Go Tell It On the Mountain. It’s phenomenal. Do you recommend Giovanni’s Room?
“I am also Italian-American, so the 5 stages of grief are cavatelli, mozzarella, parmigiana, ravioli, and prosciutto.“ omg 👏👏👏 Grief *will* make you do strange things. Sending cozy things for your heart. 🩵
Thank you!
I'm jealous of all the woods you have nearby.
And all the bookstores.
Yeah, I like living here. Y'all should come visit.
Baldwin truly is a treasure beyond measure. I’ve been watching a lot of interviews with him. Just in the middle of this 1971 conversation with him and Nikki Giovanni: https://youtu.be/y4OPYp4s0tc?si=3xACbNpcY2lFHGBp
Grief rituals matter. I’ve been thinking about this recently. My son is coming up on a big birthday, and my grandmother died two days before he was born. Because of the circumstances of his birth, I was barely conscious of her passing, and feel like I never got to truly grieving her. My sisters and I have talked about how to find the rituals we couldn’t have at the time. Yours are inspiring. Hugs to you.
I think it was watching clips of Baldwin being interviewed was what made me want to read him. Similarly, I never got to properly grieve my uncle, who died during the first month of the Covid pandemic.
I’m so sorry, Tommy. I really wonder how much stoppered-up grief there is around the world after those months and years.
I agree, there's a lot of it. Some is manifesting as anger and grievance, some as joy and perseverance... let's bet on joy.
Very sorry for your loss. How sad to be stuck at home during such a momentous time.
"When I visit a new place, I look for a bookshop. Keep the receipt inside, and you’ve got a memorable souvenir."
What a great idea!
Very sorry about your loss. I don't have pets anymore for that same reason--it gets to be too much after a point.
I think you’d really enjoy reading The Last Algonquin by
Theodore Kazimiroff
Great post! I enjoy seeing your world through your words and images. We have something in common - I read my first Baldwin book last summer - Go Tell It On the Mountain. It’s phenomenal. Do you recommend Giovanni’s Room?
I haven’t finished it, but I am enjoying it. I’ll let you know.